Introducing
The Marriage Accelerator Live
12 lessons. Rebuilt from scratch.
Live on Zoom with you in the room.
Founding member enrollment open June 19 — July 19 only.
We start July 23rd.
Getting divorced or staying in a stale marriage
aren't your only options.
Neither is just... letting it drift.
You love each other. That's not really the question.
The question is why it sometimes feels like you're two people running parallel lives. Busy, competent, caring...but not quite together in the way you used to be. The spark isn't gone exactly. It's just buried under the kids, the calendar, the mortgage, and the fact that you've both been running on fumes since approximately 2019.
You're not in crisis. You don't need to be rescued. You just want more. More connection, more ease, more of that feeling of being genuinely known by the person you chose.
And you're smart enough to know that waiting until things get bad before you do anything about it is not a strategy.
Introducing The Marriage Accelerator Live
The Marriage Accelerator, rebuilt from scratch. Live on Zoom. With you in the room while I make it.
I recorded the original Fire It Up Marriage Accelerator two years ago. It's good. I know I can do better. So I'm remaking all 12 lessons live, and I want a small group of couples in the room with me while I do it.
Here's what that means for you:
12 lessons, rebuilt from scratch. The same evidence-based methodology from my award-winning book Fire It Up, delivered live every other Thursday at 6pm EST starting July 23rd.
Live Q&A after every session. Ask me anything. This is where the real work happens.
Recording available for 48 hours. Can't make it live? The replay is yours for 48 hours after each session. After that it's gone, so you actually watch it.
Flexible scheduling. If enough people can't make Thursdays work, I'll schedule an additional live Q&A at a time that works for more of you. I want you there, not watching a recording alone at midnight.
Your $197 goes toward the full program. At any point, if you decide you want lifetime access to all the exercises, worksheets and the full portal, your $197 applies toward the $497 self-study program.
You're not choosing between them, you're just choosing where to start.
WHAT WE'LL COVER
12 Lessons Across 4 Phases
Lessons 1—3: Create a Shared Purpose
Build a shared vision for your life together and start bringing it to life, one step at a time.
Lessons 4—6: Arouse Interest in Each Other
You think you know everything about each other — until you uncover new layers that reignite curiosity and connection.
Lessons 7—9: Protect Your Marriage
Learn to face challenges side by side, not against each other. Better communication, conflict resolution, and repair.
Lessons 10—12: Enjoy Head-Turning Desire
No more forced date nights or scheduled sex. Rebuild the kind of connection that makes you want to linger, laugh, and reach for each other again.
Want to go deeper on the curriculum and methodology?
We start July 23rd.
If you show up and do the work, you will feel genuinely different by the time school starts in September. By the time the leaves fall, you'll have a different marriage.
I'm not being dramatic. I've watched it happen over 30 years of this work.
Meet Carolyn Sharp
I'm a therapist, coach, TEDx speaker, and author of the award-winning book Fire It Up: Four Secrets to Reigniting Intimacy and Joy in Your Relationship. I've spent 30 years helping couples figure out how to love each other better
.
I'm also someone who knows firsthand what it's like to love someone and still get it wrong, and how to do the hard, humbling work of building something better. That experience is in the room with me every time I work with a couple.
I'm direct. I bring humor to hard conversations. And I genuinely believe that most couples who want to do this work can get somewhere extraordinary.
This fall I'm leading a retreat at Kripalu, one of the country's most respected wellness centers, and making a special appearance at a stand-up comedy show about happy couples. Because if you know me at all, that makes complete sense.
Don't take our word for it...
"Carolyn, you are absolutely awesome. Your willingness to show up as an imperfect human still working on all the same things was so reassuring and created safety for us to be vulnerable. You are also so fun and caring. The presentations were a perfect blend for creating the best experience."
--Martha
"Carolyn's coaching has been vital in helping me understand my partner and learn to look for tells that help me take better care of him. She is direct and clear, but supportive and gentle at the same time."
--Beth
"Carolyn manages to be down-to-earth, accessible, and extremely knowledgeable all at once. You will see how quickly she understands a couple's challenges and how she partners with you to create lasting improvements. I cannot recommend Carolyn highly enough."
-- Jason Brand, LICSW, Human Nurture Podcast
"Carolyn, you were amazing. Present, solid, unbiased, intelligent, engaged. So, so helpful for both of us and that's a miracle."
--James and Lila
This is for you if:
*You love each other and you know something has quietly slipped.
*Your marriage is good and you're ready to make it great.
*You want real tools, not more talking about talking.
*You're willing to show up twice a month for six months and actually do the work.
This is not for you if:
You're in crisis and need immediate support — please reach out for therapy.
Only one of you is willing to show up.
You're looking for a magic fix that doesn't require anything from you.
100% Satisfied or Your Money Back
If you attend the first two sessions and don't feel it's right for you, I'll refund your full $197, no questions asked.
I'm not interested in keeping your money if this isn't the right fit. I am interested in you showing up and giving it a real shot first.
FAQ's
What's the difference between this and the self-study program?
The self-study program at $497 gives you lifetime access to the full portal, all exercises, worksheets, and downloadable materials. Marriage Accelerator Live is the live experience — you're in the room with me, with Q&A, but without the portal materials. Your $197 applies toward the $497 at any point if you decide you want everything.
What if I already bought the Fire It Up Marriage Accelerator?
You are automatically invited in. You will receive an email with the zoom invite and the dates. Once the zoom calls are recorded and edited, they will be uploaded into the portal for your lifetime use. You get the updated materials each and every time I add anything! That's lifetime access, baby!
What if my partner is resistant?
It's usually more about how they're being asked than the idea itself. That said, both of you need to be willing to show up for this to work. If one of you isn't there yet, the self-study program can be a gentler starting point.
Is this therapy?
No. This is coaching. If you're dealing with addiction, abuse, infidelity, or significant mental health concerns, please work with a licensed therapist. This program is for couples who are fundamentally solid and ready to invest in being great.
What's your refund policy?
Attend the first two sessions. If it's not right for you after that, I'll refund your full $197. No hoops, no hard feelings.