Learn the Secrets to Stopping the Pointless Fights and Creating a Stronger Connection!
IN PERSON WORKSHOP HAS SOLD OUT-SPOTS AVAILABLE IN THE ZOOM WORKSHOP.
Registration is CLOSED.
Learn the One Psychological Tool
To Solve the 3 Biggest Fights
All Couples Have!
Get past the fight cycle and get what you want!
Are you tired of repeating the fights that never go anywhere?
Frustrated that you can never reach resolution?
Feeling lost why you can't get past the same conversations over and over?
- "We always end up fighting the same way!"
- "I repeat myself over and over and never feel heard!"
- "We both feel resentful about housework and chores!"
- "We can't agree on how to spend our money!"
- "We always end up further apart when we are trying to get close!"
- "I feel misunderstood for wanting a better sex life!"
- "I feel pressured to be different than I am!"
You repeat the same three fights your entire relationship...
You try to Say the Same Thing in New Ways, only Increasing the distance and frustration.
You want closeness and collaboration in
Money, Sex, and Time in your relationship,
but only get struggle and pain.
USE THIS AREA TO TELL YOUR STORY.
My experience:
"When we fell in love and got married, we didn't think anything would come up! Ahh the rose colored glasses!
But we are different people, raised in different ways and we want and need different things. So of course things came up!
But I thought they'd be different from all the other couples...we wouldn't struggle around money, sex or time!!
But side by side with my work as a therapist and coach, I saw the same challenges come up in my relationship and we had to learn the same way as everyone else...the hard way!
Through my passion as a couples therapist that I found the pattern of struggle underlying these three fights have that no one manages to talk about and learn to process!
When I brought this back to my relationship and learned to look at the REAL issues underneath the fights we found a new way to talk about these issues, create deeper connection and GET WHAT WE BOTH WANT!"
I want that for you. Let me help you learn how to get what you want while creating a deeper connection!
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
You fight about money
Who is contributing what...
What to spend money on...
How much to save...
Who spends more...
Unless you understand why these fights are happening, you will never be able to create collaboration and create resolution!
Investing time to develop healthier processes will pay off for years to come!
You fight about Time
How much to spend together....
How much to spend apart....
How much you each spend on chores....
How long things should take...
We all struggle to define and negotiate time in our relationship.
Learning the meaning and process needed to free you can save you time and heartache.
You fight about sex
When to have it...
How often to have it....
Who initiates it...
.Whether other people should be involved....
This is a particularly tricky issue but shares three common underlying dynamics.
Developing a new way to talk offers the path through to healing and connection.
Collaboration, Connection and Closeness Will be Yours!
Return the Passion & Play to Your Life and Out of Your Arguments!
Love, fun and Shared Goals CAN BE YOURS!
Imagine what it would feel like no longer experiencing:
wasted time on never resolving arguments....
wasted money on lost agreements....
endless frustration that you can never get anywhere!
there is a way through.
You can learn how to get what you want
AND
get closer in the process.
Learn the real things you are ACTUALLY fighting about and the ways to create shared understanding and the agreements you have been craving!
greater intimacy!
When you learn to talk about what is beneath the endless fights about money, sex and time, you will have more of ALL THREE!
greater collaboration!
When you learn the process that creates greater understanding you are able to create the teamwork you crave!
greater results
When you take the time to create the shared goals for these three critical areas, you develop powerful outcomes you have been seeking!
JOIN THIS workshop to resolve these fights and create greater connection!
For the first time EVER I am offering a workshop in 2 formats to support the greatest number of couples.
Choose LIVE In-person* OR LIVE over Zoom*. Choose the program that fits your time-frame, budget and location.
Join this powerful program to learn how to get past
The 3 Biggest Fights ALL Couples Have.
*limited seats available
Each format offers
*6 hours of instruction and guided exercises,
*a workbook with exercises to help you beyond the training
*Question and Answer sessions,
*a small, private facebook group where I will go live to answer questions and offer bonus coaching!
WHAT'S INCLUDED...
understand
I have created a process to lead you to full understanding of each other and your shared histories
and how they contributed to the challenges around Money, Sex and Time.
learn
Through the understanding,
you will learn
the means to take care of each other and yourselves in
taking care of your relationship.
In doing so you will achieve all the outcomes
communicate
The process in this training will teach
you the healthiest means to talk and process
conversations
about Money, Sex
and Time. You will
learn the meaning
and feelings beneath each of the topics.
deepen
The growth and understanding will deepen your relationship and
fire up the
intimacy and
passion.
grow
This will foster incredible healing and promises growth and transformation individually and as a couple.
release
You will be freed from past pain and
create deeper love and greater happiness
today and
over time.
Only 8 couples spots for the Live Seattle Training. Only 25 couples spots for the Zoom Trainings.
This is the ONLY TIME the Live and Zoom classes will be offered this year.
Special offers? Discounted coaching only offered through this round of enrollment and is limited to the first 20 couples to sign up. offer today.
Take advantage now. These limited seats will sell out fast.
I want you to be 100% SATISFIED.
If you are not satisfied in the first 30 minutes of the live or Zoom training, you can receive a full refund without keeping the download. Once you download the materials, no refund is available.
BONUS
01.
Playback Access To The Program
For Zoom attendees, if you cannot make any of the meetings, you can use a replay and use the guided exercises to navigate any challenging conversation. The workbook will keep you on track throughout your life together. You receive lifetime access to the facebook group where I answer questions to support your relationship.
BONUS
02.
Bonus Exercises to Deepen Collaboration, Understanding and Play. Once you complete this training, I will send you a workbook of bonus exercises to help deepen and solidify the work you have done. This will help take you to a new level of bliss and support your continued growth for years to come!
BONUS
03.
Discounted 1:1 Coaching
Because of my commitment to your growth and progress, I am offering alumni of this program a discount for 1:1 couples coaching. For signing up for this program, you can deduct the cost of the program from any coaching package you sign up for.
live or online
there are two options to meet your needs
live in person!
Seattle.
August 27,2022
9:30-4:30 pST
$369
One time payment
6 hours of LIVE teaching and guided exercises.
Worksheets to assist your learning
Access to the private facebook group.
Follow-up meeting over Zoom to continue your progress.
Continental breakfast and coffee served
$369 discount for any chosen couples coaching package for 6 months.
You will see changes in your relationship immediately and watch your connection deepen as you let go of the struggles not serving you!!
“Carolyn, you are abso-f&*%-lutely awesome! Your willingness to show up as an imperfect human still working on all the same things was so reassuring and created safety for us to be vulnerable. You are also so fun and caring. The presentations and group interactions were a perfect blend for creating the best experience.”
-MARTHA.
”
““Carolyn’s coaching has been vital in helping me understand my partner and learn to look for ‘tells’ that help me take better care of him. She is direct and clear, but supportive and gentle at the same time.”
- BETH
”
“Carolyn manages to be down-to-earth, accessible, and extremely knowledgeable all at once. As you and your partner get to know her, you will see how quickly she understands the couple's challenges and how she partners with you to create lasting improvements in your relationship. I can not highly recommend Carolyn's classes enough.
- JASON BRAND, LICSW HUMAN NURTURE PODCAST.
”
Create the Closer, Easier Relationship You Crave and learn to solve problems faster, easier and with more connection!
You will see incredible growth through ending the repeated arguments about Money, Sex and Time and develop the collaboration, closeness and connection you want in all
three of those struggles!
And you will have a blast doing it!
Don't keep putting off health and intimacy.
Prioritize your relationship's needs and learn to have healthier conversations and watch your relationship bloom!
Here are the options for this opportunity to get healthy together and create health around Money, Sex and Time!
ACT NOW!
Self Study course
$369
One time fee.
6 hours of guided instruction and exercises
Worksheets to assist your learning
Access to the private facebook group
Follow-up meeting over Zoom to continue your progress.
$369 discount for any chosen couples coaching package for 6 months.
You will grow closer, learn healthier communication and
create the financial, intimacy and shared time goals you've been fighting about for years.
This training only happens once a year!
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
WILL THIS GUARANTEE WE NEVER FIGHT ABOUT SEX AGAIN?
This will create a process for you to use in all your disagreements going forward. The success of your relationship depends on the work you put into it.
HOW DO WE KNOW THIS WORKS?
This training is based on my 25+ years as a couples therapist and coach. I offer the expertise, process, and support, but the results are based in your effort!
IS IT OK IF WE AREN'T BOTH EXCITED FOR THIS?
It is common that one partner is more eager than the other and both levels of excitement and dread are welcome!
IS THIS TRAINING ONLY FOR COUPLES?
Yes. While single people can benefit from the training in learning how to apply it later, the information is designed for couples.
DO BOTH PEOPLE NEED TO BE PRESENT?
Yes, but if one of you is unavailable, the replay will be available for an entire week so you can watch it together later.
WILL THIS SOLVE OUR PROBLEMS FOREVER?
We all have to work on our relationship! The more we practice these skills and the more we make a habit of effort on our relationship, the easier the work becomes!
Learn to Stop the Most Persistent Fights While Growing Closer.
Offered Once a Year and There is Limited Seating!
Bonus Discount to the First 20 Couples That Sign Up!!!
LAST CHANCE, sign up today!
LIVE IN PERSON!
SEATTLE.
AUGUST 27,2022
9:30-4:30 PST
$369
One time fee.
6 hours of guided instruction and exercises in person in Seattle to a small group of couples
Worksheets to assist your learning
Access to the private facebook group
Follow-up meeting over Zoom to continue your progress.
Coffee, water and snacks served
$369 discount for any chosen couples coaching package for 6 months.
3 CLASSES ON ZOOM
AUGUST 31,
SEPTEMBER 7,
SEPTEMBER 14,